I Want to do something different in life

 

"If you want something you've never had, you must be willing to do something you've never done." ~ Thomas Jefferson

 

If you want to gain something in life first you have to lose something.

DO YOU WANT SOMETHING DIFFERENT?

YES!

"IF YOU WANT THINGS TO BE DIFFERENT, YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT"

For many of you, the answer will be “no.” And that’s your decision. That’s a choice that you’re making because you’re in charge of your life—no one else is. But the truth of the matter is that you won’t improve your life at all if you aren’t willing to try something new—to change what you’re doing. To try something different.

But if you are willing to do something different, congratulations! The door to your future has just opened wide. You’ve heard the phrase “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.”

Many people use this as an excuse to keep doing what they’re doing, even if it doesn’t “work” right all the time. They don’t want to take the time to improve things because their current reality isn’t “broke”.

But we were not meant to be stagnant humans. We were meant to grow, learn, and change throughout our lives to learn lessons and help others along the way.

That all being said, we are also, as humans, resistant to change because change is uncertain. Change is uncomfortable. Changing means we need to go into the unknown and risk comfort for something else.

GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT

For as long as I can remember I was always dreaming of what I will do in the future, where I would be in the coming years. I don't want to be a part of the flow. I want to be someone different. Some people cannot recognize anything that they love, and this is a barrier to moving toward something different. Whatever you do, it is safer to move toward different things by a series of steps, because it is a proverb that

One—Thing—Leads—-To——Another—Thing

Do you know what you want?

You have to ask this question from yourself what you wanted to do in your life? in what things you have interests. look at your interests. If you want to do something bigger in life you have to give your time to yourself. you have to know for yourself what is the actual thing that is for you. I just remember when I was 17 I didn't even know what I wan to do in my life, I just don't want to go with the flow. then I have just started to motivate myself and choose a respective which I have been interested in.

steps to do some different :

 There are some steps that you will follow to make a change in your life:

 1- change your thinking 

 2-accept your reality

 3-identify the things that need to be changed 

 4-get stuck with your dream

By following these steps you will definitely find your passion.

STEP 1:CHANGE YOUR THINKING

change your method of thinking is the first step of change. if you want success you would probably take uncomfortableness because if you are in the comfort zone now then you will definitely be uncomfortable in the future.

STEP 2:ACCEPT YOUR REALITY

accepting the reality is the step of healing yourself or recovery (or whatever you would like to call it).because where are you now depends on the decisions you have made for the rest of life .its all on your shoulders NO ONE IS RESPONSIBLE.  like this that nobody is responsible for your past literally no person is responsible for your future. isn't it scary that all your decisions are upon your own shoulders? so accept what you are now and recover or heal yourself.

STEP 3: IDENTIFY THINGS THAT REALLY NEEDS TO BE CHANGED

Scan yourself and identify the things which you don't want in yourself in the future. for example; dizziness, health plan, etc. identify that which things have the first priority, manage all the activities, and just stop making excuses with yourself that you are tired or what else you have made in the past.

STEP 4:GET STUCK WITH YOUR DREAM

The idea that you were born for some higher purpose and it’s your mission to find and fulfill this singular activity creates a lot of pressure!  The message is - if you don't have a life purpose, your life is meaningless, unfulfilling, and unhappy. Sometimes we spend our time doing things that are important and sometimes we just don't. The important things are what give our lives meaning and happiness. 

So when you're wondering what your life purpose is, or what you're "supposed to do," another way to think about it is to ask yourself, “What can I do with my time that is important?”  This eliminates the baggage that comes with the life purpose question and also creates a state of mind that is more open to possibility. Now you have more options.

What’s important to you generally corresponds with what you are “passionate” about. It isn’t necessarily only one thing and it may change through different stages of your life.

 TAKE ACTION TODAY: Connect to your inner wisdom and create a list of what's important, meaningful, fun, or inspiring to you.

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